Защита против страха и серьезных нарушений своего развития у ребёнка

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Защита против страха и серьезных нарушений своего развития у ребёнкаСпособен ли ребенок выдержать такое напряжение, в состоянии ли он выстроить защиту против страха и серьезных нарушений своего развития, зависит от его душевных и умственных способностей, его возможностей и того, как он реагирует на окружающий мир. Чем надежнее будет выстраиваемая система защиты, тем быстрее стабилизируются условия существования ребенка. Успех всего этого процесса зависит главным образом оттого, насколько ребенку удается избежать приспосабливаемости. Из бесчисленных вариантов и комбинаций всевозможных защитных систем я назову только несколько, которые встречаются наиболее часто. Ребенок, склонный к интроверсии и страху, в раннем возрасте старается захватить власть над своей матерью, чтобы в дальнейшем не допустить разрыва их симбиотической связи. (Склонность к симбиозно-психическому синдрому по Малеру.) Умственно отсталый ребенок со склонностью к интроверсии и предрасположенностью к страху прежде всего отказывается от любых попыток его обучения, чтобы избежать сомнений в его умственной полноценности. В результате у таких детей развивается аутистический синдром У интеллектуально развитого ребенка со склонностью к интроверсии и страху перед столкновением с новой для него ситуацией проявляется нервозность в связи с опасениями, что созданная им система защиты не сработает. (Склонность к неврозам и истерикам. Экстравертированность характера и динамический темперамент позволяют ребенку распространять свою власть на целый мир. Ребенку нельзя отказать в шарме, с которым он извлекает выгоду из своей активной агрессивности, направленной на других. Детям, склонным к агрессивности, легко предсказать реакцию окружающих на свои деструктивные поступки. «Да, я сознательно насолил своему учителю», — думает злодей и пока чувствует себя в безопасности. (Склонность к антисоциальному поведению.) Ребенок, способный быстро и грамотно сформулировать свои мысли, часто стремится переложить свою вину на других, манипулируя при этом своим собственным моральным кодексом. (Склонность к синдрому помощников по Шмидбауэру. Ребенок болезненный и мало склонный к самореализации будет использовать свою болезнь в собственных целях. К примеру, он может демонстрировать окружающим удушье при бронхите в надежде привлечь к себе их внимание. (Склонность к психосоматическим болезням.) Средства, к которым прибегают дети в целях обеспечения собственной защищенности, могут коренным образом отличаться друг от друга. Это может быть и формирование симбиотических связей, манипулирование, роль дурачка, болезнь, физическое насилие, демонстрация слабости, перенос вины на другого, использование своего обаяния и т. д.

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